Obituaries

Richard Parker
B: 1940-03-23
D: 2018-04-16
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Parker, Richard
William Hughes
B: 1938-04-22
D: 2018-04-15
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Hughes, William
Trinidad Maestas
B: 1951-01-11
D: 2018-04-13
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Maestas, Trinidad
Donna Mortensen
B: 1928-06-23
D: 2018-04-09
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Mortensen, Donna
Roberto Delgado
B: 2002-05-09
D: 2018-04-08
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Delgado, Roberto
Homer Lewis
B: 1933-10-06
D: 2018-04-07
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Lewis, Homer
Roberta Oaks
B: 1924-03-30
D: 2018-04-03
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Oaks, Roberta
Carlotta Amador
B: 1938-05-29
D: 2018-04-02
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Amador, Carlotta
Betty Harmsen
B: 1926-04-09
D: 2018-03-30
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Harmsen, Betty
Linda Hale
B: 1955-03-29
D: 2018-03-26
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Hale, Linda
Hubert Smith
B: 1920-02-02
D: 2018-03-25
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Smith, Hubert
Pauline Bond
B: 1932-02-19
D: 2018-03-25
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Bond, Pauline
Gerald Creery
B: 1932-02-13
D: 2018-03-24
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Creery, Gerald
Joel Anderson
B: 1932-10-29
D: 2018-03-22
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Anderson, Joel
Edna Parker
B: 1941-12-10
D: 2018-03-22
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Parker, Edna
Betty Martin
B: 1932-03-15
D: 2018-03-19
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Martin, Betty
Helen Sowards
B: 1946-06-20
D: 2018-03-18
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Sowards, Helen
Ricky Manzanares
B: 1965-04-01
D: 2018-03-17
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Manzanares, Ricky
Jeremy Jiron
B: 1982-02-05
D: 2018-03-17
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Jiron, Jeremy
Vivian Gonzales
B: 1970-02-03
D: 2018-03-16
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Gonzales, Vivian
Stephen Horwath
D: 2018-03-14
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Horwath, Stephen

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The death of a loved one is life's most painful event. People's reactions to death remain one of society's least understood and most "off-limits" topics for discussion. Oftentimes, grievers feel totally alone in dealing with their pain, loneliness, and isolation.

Grief is a natural emotion that follows death of someone dear to you; and to one degree or another, it hurts. It is like an open wound which must heal.

At times, it can seem as if this healing will never happen. But, sometimes the healing process can take much less time than we have been led to believe. Grieving is purely an individual experience.

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The ultimate goal of grief and mourning is to take you beyond your initial reactions to the loss. The therapeutic purpose of grief and mourning is to get you to the place where you can live with the loss in a healthy way. To do this, you have to make some necessary changes in your life, including:

1. Changing your relationship with your loved one—recognizing he or she is now gone and developing new ways of relating to him or her. Take comfort in knowing your relationship will continue - it will just be different.

2. Developing a new sense of yourself to reflect the many changes that occurred when you lost your loved one.

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